Emotions Affect Healing

6977_10151373588542650_572368770_nWhen we are under stress it causes a cascade of hormones and reactions to flow throughout the body. Non-essential bodily functions shut off, energy producing functions kick in, blood (along with it’s immune and repair gadgets) goes to where it’s needed most to get us out of danger. When we’re running from a tiger that makes sense, the body doesn’t need to be digesting food or healing wounds when you’re about to be eaten alive.  Once the threat is over the body goes back to healing and repairing, sending the relaxation hormones into motion and putting the fight, flight, or freeze hormones back in the box until next time.

If it hurts, it hurts

91558513Validate Your Pain.  We don’t hear that everyday, especially when we’re going through something that contains pain, either emotional or physical.  We usually hear, “be strong,” “it can’t be that bad,” or “you’ll have to learn to live with it.”

I found an article that resonates so clearly with my experience, that acknowledging the pain is the very first step to getting through it.  True, it’s been said that we attract what we spend the most time thinking about, even if we’re trying to think of a way to avoid it.  But, the more we ignore pain the more it refuses to go away.  When we try to “tough it out,” pain doesn’t just go away like a rejected friend, it takes up residence and it’s not the ideal roommate.  So check this out, there’s a link to the whole article at the bottom.  Leave a comment, whether you agree or disagree.

Guided Imagery for Pain Relief

Curious about how guided imagery can be used for pain relief, stress reduction, and healing?  Below is a short interview with Leslie Davenport, licensed therapist, clinical faculty at the integrative medicine center of a major hospital in San Francisco, and one of my psychology continuing education instructors, who gives a great example of how guided imagery works:

Imagine Yourself Better

What do you think of yourself?  Are you typically Positive Polly, or are you more of a Negative Nelly?  The way you see yourself has been shown to make a difference in overall wellness.  The good news is that you can do something to improve your wellness just by intentionally imagining yourself in a better light.  You’ve heard about how “being your best self” can change an outcome from many of the experts on success psychology and athletic performance.  Here’s a glimpse of how imagining your best possible self can impact your overall well-being:

Imagining a “Best Possible Self” to Generate Optimism

Self-Coaching in 10 Steps

Something has happened to change your life.  It may be an injury, illness, surgery, or other loss of health.  It may be a change in lifestyle, career, or the role you play in the family.  Or maybe it was the death of a loved one, end of a relationship, or loss of a dream that kept you going.  Now what?

Transitions in life are often difficult and energy draining.  Our brain can get stuck on what has happened even though life continues to move on all around us.  How can we take care of our need for processing all the emotions and still prepare to recharge our batteries and re-enter “real life” as it is now?  Coaching can help.

Is Happiness a Choice?

Believe it or not, it is within your power to create positive thoughts allowing you to accomplish anything you set out to do.  Can you really think yourself happy?  The answer is a qualified yes. Research proves that how we think can directly affect how we feel.  Here are the ways in which positive thoughts can help you accomplish many things in life.

Life Coaching Helps Cancer Patients Keep Their Eyes On The Prize

If you or someone you care about is going through cancer treatment, it’s possible that between doctor visits and treatment appointments there will be times when having someone with a fresh perspective to talk to might help.   Life and wellness coaches as support system members are, perhaps, a choice that hasn’t been considered by most folks.  Guest blogger Emily Walsh tells us more…

Life Coaching Helps Cancer Patients Keep Their Eyes On The Prize

How HealYourBest Coaching Works

Whether you’re newly injured, preparing for, or recovering from surgery, you need tips and tools to make the healing process easier and less stressful. HealYourBest Certified Wellness Coaching provides the right tools for you at just the right time.  From the moment you decide to invest in this program you will benefit from having an experienced and highly trained guide along during your journey of recovery.  I’ll personalize a program starting with where you are currently, will encourage you as you look at your old story in order to know what to change, and will “walk beside you” as you create your new story of wellness.

Your New Wellness Story

New Life Story® Wellness Coaching 

Empowering people who have been sidelined by injury or illness to create a new story of wellness.”

It’s time to create a New Wellness Story® for your life

Do you want:

  • Healthier habits, but don’t know how to maintain them?
  • Less stress?
  • Whole person health?
  • Lasting improvements in your mind and body?

Most strategies for changing wellness fail because they are contrary to how the mind and brain work.

Your Body Eavesdrops on Your Thoughts

The way we think can affect the way we feel, not only in our emotions but in our bodies. The following article from Neil Neimark, MD sheds some light on the ways in which our bodies can listen in on the content of our thoughts and manifest them in ways we may not realize.
Say “YES” to Life!

Research in the field of mind/body medicine tells us that all our thoughts and feelings are chemical. In fact, every thought and feeling we have is translated in the body into neuropeptides, which are the chemical messengers of thought and feeling.

Using Imagery to Feel Successful

Imagery Through the Senses

Excerpt from the book Your Performing Edge*
Dr. JoAnn Dahlkoetter  Best-selling Author

Let’s talk about a variety of imagery categories and see how visualization incorporates the senses. After you become familiar with the various options, you can then select a particular type of imagery that matches your own perception style. Most experts agree that for maximum effectiveness, mental images should be positive and vivid, and evoke as many senses as possible. Why should imagery be a sensory experience?

Killer Clichés about Loss

QUESTION: I have heard that it takes 2 years to “get over” the death of a loved one; 5 years to “get over” the death of a parent; and you never “get over” the death of a child. Is this true?

ANSWER: Part of the problem is the phrase “get over.” It is more accurate to say that you would never forget a child who had died, anymore than you would ever forget a parent or a loved one. Another part of the problem is one of those killer clichés we talked about, that time, of itself, is a recovery action. Although recovery from loss does take some time, it is the actions within time that lead to successful recovery.

Grieving Loss of Health?

Injury and illness are losses that may need grieving.

There are at least 43 losses which can produce the range of emotions we call grief. The long list includes:

  • Death of a loved one
  • Divorce or end of a relationships
  • Major financial changes
  • Loss of health

Grief is normal and natural, but many of the ideas we have been taught about dealing with grief are not helpful, for example:

  • Time heals all wounds
  • You must grieve alone
  • Be strong
  • Don’t feel bad
  • Replace the loss
  • Just keep busy

Asking for Help While Healing – Top 10 Tips

ask for helpAsking for help is not always easy, especially when we are not used to doing it. When we are recovering it is sometimes even harder because we want to prove to others (and ourselves) that we can be independent, while secretly wishing others would “just know” what we need. While it is not reasonable to expect all our needs to be met just exactly when and how we want, it is possible to help others help us simply by letting them know what we need. So, what is the best way to communicate to others so that they will understand the things we cannot do for ourselves and be willing to help? The following is a list of ten tips for getting the best response.


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